How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 00:45
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Hangs out with loser friends.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If people in the UK hate Trump so much, why does he own golf courses there?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why do people think Mirko is boring in My Hero Academia?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What I need from you?
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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What made you feel disgusted today?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Does not procrastinate.
Why do wives cheat on their loyal husbands?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
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Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
That's it for today.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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Making more friends is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Why do I want to suck cock tonight?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Procrastinates a lot.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.